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Restorative Justice Part 1

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We talk on my radio show often about Restorative Justice. This is the progressive “discipline” philosophy in public schools that says, “Suspension rates are too high and minority kids are disciplined disproportionately from white kids. So instead of disciplining kids, it’s game on! And instead of suspending kids, we’re going to let them do whatever they want.”

If you’re a teacher, please share your story in the comments with this Restorative Justice philosophy and how it’s made your job miserable.

We had one teacher call into the radio show and say she has such trouble with one elementary school kid, the principal told her that if he acted up she had to remove ALL THE OTHER KIDS from the classroom.

Check out this article about teachers in St. Paul. One of the teachers says “we have a segment of kids who consider themselves untouchable.” Another teacher, “students who tired of lectures simply stand up and leave…They can just bust into rooms where they don’t belong, just picking fights not even in hallways, in other classrooms, teachers have to lock the door to keep other kids out.”

A fourth-grade teacher, “I’ve been punched, kicked and spit on” and called “every cuss word you could possibly think of,”

One teacher, “Many of us . . . often go home in tears, Please, don’t give us more staff development on racism or . . . how to de-escalate a student altercation. . . . We teachers feel as if we are drowning.”

So the idea is, we keep disciplining kids and they get on the wrong track and go to prison. And we have the “school-to-prison pipeline”, so if we don’t discipline kids at all, then they won’t go to prison.

One teacher says “this is backwards! By not disciplining, we’re telling these kids you don’t have to be on time for anything, we’re just going to talk to you about what you’ve done. You can literally assault somebody, an adult and we’re going to let you come back to the classroom.”

That type of behavior – if you allow that – is just going to get worse. And they’ll eventually go to prison.

The Fresno School District, at least 70 of 85 teachers have signed the petition asking for a stricter and more consistent student discipline policy.

“Students are returned to class without consequence after assaulting teachers, both verbally and physically,” the petition states. “When students face no accountability measures, it undermines the authority of all teachers, and creates a negative campus culture.”

One teacher of eleven years says “a student can say ‘F—-you’ and we’re told that it’s just his personality. The students do the same things over and over again, and we respond in the same way over and over again.”

A school in Ohio, “Teachers in this Ohio town have been physically assaulted 36 times this school year” It’s game on. The kids know it.

Now, what does this have to do with the school shooting in Florida?

This is the Executive Director of Student Support Initiatives for Broward County Public Schools, in August 2017, “we’re not compromising school safety. We’re really saving the lives of kids.”

She’s referring to what’s called to what was called the “Broward County Solution.” It’s Restorative Justice. Broward County used to lead the state of Florida in sending kids to juvenile detention. The progressive solution was Restorative Justice: decrease the number of arrests by not making arrests.
They took twelve different misdemeanor offenses and instead treated them as school-related issues, not criminal ones. In 2011, there were over 1,000 arrests (which is an insanely high number). Four years later, less than 400.
Now, this doesn’t mean the criminal behavior stopped. It’s just fewer kids were getting arrested for the bad behavior.There very well could be, probably was, MORE bad behavior. Just no one is getting in trouble for it.
This school shooter was one of these kids who was always in trouble, but nothing was done to stop him.
Not only that, but in 2012, Barack Obama sent a memo to public schools all across the country telling them to avoid, “methods that result in disparate use of disciplinary tools.” Disparate use means more minority kids are getting disciplined than white kids, so stop disciplining minority kids.

Nikolas de Jesus Cruz is a statistical Hispanic.

When the effort from the school is to lower the suspension rates for minorities and to get them more in line with White and Asian students, officials at the school have every reason to NOT report Nicolas Cruz’s troubling and likely criminal behavior to police.

Miami Herald wrote a great article about his behavior problems and the headline read
Parkland shooter always in trouble, never expelled. Could school system have done more?” The answer is yes.

The opening paragraph talks about how Cruz was a school administrator’s nightmare: kicking doors, cursing at teachers, fighting with classmates. He brought a backpack with bullets to school. One teacher said he wasn’t even allowed in the school with a backpack because they were afraid of what might be in it!

Everyone knew about Cruz, it was not a mystery.

One teacher sometimes had to call security to let Cruz into the classroom and to keep an eye on him during class. A security guard!

Cruz was in the Exceptional Student Program at Broward Schools. Don’t go thinking that exceptional means exceptionally GOOD. In progressive world everything is backward. It’s the opposite. If you’re in the “exceptional program” it means you’re exceptionally bad. An administrator who was with the Exceptional Student Program for 42 years says she’s never seen the document about Cruz’s behavior with such obvious signs that the student would become violent.
The school knew this would happen! Why didn’t they do anything?

Restorative Justice.

To be clear: I don’t expect schools to do all the disciplining. Kids used to be disciplined at home and the school was a supplement. And the discipline and punishment be worse when you get back home. But when the disciplining stopped at home, the school was left to fend for themselves, and after all of these decades, they’ve finally decided to give up. What’s so frustrating and deceitful however, is they’ve given up in the name of helping kids.

So now we live in this world where kids don’t get disciplined for anything. They run the show. They’re in control of the parents. And they think they can be in charge of the teachers too. The progressive mentality is to institutionalize this. And we tell these troubled kids: “Ya. You are in charge.”
This philosophy won’t help those on the fringes. It will allow them to spiral further out of control and into deeper isolation. And the kids who just want to learn while in school are victimized even more.
Restorative Justice has to stop. Make sure your kid’s school doesn’t follow this philosophy.

It’s The Dads


Why are there more school shootings now than ever before?

We’ve talked about many reasons. I think one of the biggest reasons: Dads. Or lack of dads.

When Moynihan wrote “The Negro Family: A Case for National Action” in 1965, 25% of black kids were born without a dad. And it was a call to action! Today 72%. How sad is that!

Of all races, 72% of adolescent murderers grew up without fathers. 60% of all rapists. 70% of juveniles in state institutions grew up in single- or no-parent situations. And these are kids with NO dads. There are also many dads who may be “present” but are absent or violent or alcoholic or whatever.

POVERTY is not a predicte of crime. It’s lack of dads

Let me say here, if you’re a single mom, this does not mean that your kid is destind to be awful or a murderer or a delinquint or a dropout or a terible person, goodnss NO!

But it means you have to intentional.

Intentional about finding male role models in your kids life. And being aware of wounds that will exist from not having a present dad. But I want to stress it’s not a guarantee by any means that your kids will be ruined or worhtless to society! I mean this as awareness and a call to be inteientonal about finding positive male role models, which can come fom a million diffent direction. I had a dad. And I had many male role models that each added something to my life.
Bruce Filer was dying of cancer and he organized a “Council of Dads”; a group of men who each brought something to the table to mentor his kids. HE ended up not dying, but the Council of Dads remain. My kids have a Council of Dads. Everyone should.

Anyway, we focus on guns and depression and isolation and dropping out of school and all the rest, but what comes LONG before that? The home. A broken home. A chaotic home. An unstable home. An unloving home.

This is Dr. Farrell, author fo The Boy Crisis:

Without dads as role models, boys’ testosterone is not well channeled. The boy experiences a sense of purposelessness, a lack of boundary enforcement, rudderlessness, and often withdraws into video games and video porn. At worst, when boys’ testosterone is not well-channeled by an involved dad, boys become among the world’s most destructive forces. When boys’ testosterone is well channeled by an involved dad, boys become among the world’s most constructive forces.

We’v talked before about the Ancient Greek Polis. There’s no good translation in our language. We call it a city-state, but it’s so much more than that. Victor Davis Hanson:

The Greeks thought of the Polis as an active, formative thing, training the minds and characters of it’s citizens…The training of virtue, which the medieval state left to the church, and the Polis made it’s own concern, the modern state leaves to God knows what.

Maybe you’ve heard the line from Aristotle, “Man is a political animal.” That’s very poorly translated. The real line is, “Man is a creature who lives in a Polis.” Meaning, the Polis, the community, his family and culture is the only framework that man can fully realize his spiritual, moral and intellectual potential. Not in isolation.

And the root of that is the home.

James Wilson, one of our Founding Fathers, he wrote a pamphlet in 1790, “Of the Natural Rights of Individuals” and it’s all about marriage and the history of marriage in ancient times. In the middle of it he not only quoted Cicero, but he quotes it in Latin. He didn’t’ translate it because everyone reading it knew what he was talking about, “Prima societas in ipso conjugio est” Translation: The first bond of society is marriage, the next, our children, then the whole family and all things in common.”

So, marriage, family, community.

Break down on the first point – marriage – and society won’t survive.

An anthropologist in 1934 studied 86 civilizations and concluded, “In human records there is no instance of a society retaining its energy after a complete new generation has inherited a tradition which does not insist on nuptial continence”

Strong marriage.

Marriage is hard. It’s a lot of work. But there’s nothing more important.

My wife is 38 weeks pregnant. We been asking people advice on how to raise a girl. The number one piece of advice: Spend Time. Just be there. Be present.
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I would argue that this is the least talked about/most important issue in our country. It’s the root of so many other issues. Dads.

It’s Not The Guns


It’s not the guns.

The best article on this comes from Leah Libresco. She writes about her transformation from an anti-RA, anti-2nd Amendment person who thinks we should ban guns to someone who realizes guns aren’t the problem. She used to get upset that the NRA was blocking Congress from passing “common-sense gun control measure”

Quick aside: The NRA gives very little money to politicians. Vox wrote that in 2014, the NRA gave John Cornyn, the Texas Senator, $9,900 — more than it gave to any other Republican senator that election cycle.

That’s nothing. In 2014 he raised $14 million.

And he’s one of the biggest recipients of NRA donations in Congress.

Vox concluded, “NRA funding reflects a tiny fraction of the Republican fundraising apparatus”

There’s this perception that the NRA pays off members of Congress. You hear this rhetoric, “Stop taking money from the NRA because children are dying” and “Congress is funded by the NRA.”

Zero basis in reality.

Anyway, Leah Libresco spent 3 months analyzing 33k deaths from guns each year, “and I wound up frustrated in a whole new way… the case for the policies I’d lobbied for crumbled when I examined the evidence”

The very short conclusion from her research: 2/3 of gun deaths are suicide. The next largest group of people killed by guns, 20% are young men 15-34 killed by other young men (gang violence). And the next notable group is women murdered by a domestic partner.

So her conclusion is, instead of banning guns, let’s tailor our intervention to best help the potential victims. Specifically, better suicide prevention for older men (who commit most suicides), we need more mentoring and identifying of kids in gangs and we need more protections for women in abusive relationships.

Read her entire article here.

And play around with the data yourself with this website.

I’ll end with this: We can’t have a conversation about gun laws in America until the Left first admit that conservatives want to stop mass shootings, too.

I wrote about in my book “How To Change Someone’s Mind”. You can’t ever change someone’s mind if they have contempt for you or if you have contempt for them. It can’t happen. Many people on the Left, after a school shooting they scurry to the top of the moral superiority mountain and point their finger down at you because THEY want school shootings to stop and you don’t. “Blood on your hands!”

Nothing productive will ever happen if we keep operating like this.

Let’s all agree that we want to stop school shootings! And all shootings! And suicides and gang murders and domestic violence! We want all violence to stop. So let’s get to the root of each of these.

It’s not the guns. If only it was that easy.